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Friday, May 20, 2011

Pitty Party for One.

My heart hurts what more can I say.
I am no longer needed in your lives everyday
How selfish this sounds when I put it to pen
But this is how I feel every now and again.
Not meant to make you feel sad
This doesn’t mean that I am mad
No, just the opposite in a weird sort of way
I am proud of who you’ve become today.
I’m sorry for whining
I won’t pout anymore

Our Children.

Our children are not babies; they have grown and moved away.
Our children no longer need us in their lives every day.
Our children love us but from afar
Our children have families and their own car

Our children will not come just because we say
Our children have become individuals in every way
Our children have children; that’s grand of course!
Our children are parents; reality is forced
When does the child stop being a child?
This never happens, you will always be
Your Mommy and Daddy’s little one even at 63.


All Grown Up!

When you are born we have a goal.
To feed and nurture this cute little soul
The diapers and bottles, teething and such
Joy mixed with work, tears and play
 We teach you to walk and talk along the way
Make you pick up your toys and put them away
Learn to share, don’t bully or fight
A balance of spiritual and physical rights

Our goals are quite simple in the beginning
As you grow the rules you’re bending
Then comes the time when our rules don’t apply
At least from your perspective and away you fly
Now you are the grownup and we the standers by
Strangers in the same family; we ask why?
Isn’t this what we wanted?  Haven’t we taught you well?
Why is it so hard to handle? We have so much more to tell.
We are hurt and happy, proud and relieved.
Wanting to help but not knowing how it will be received.
We get angry and cry, we rant and we rave.
We watch from a distance and wait for the day
When at last you say we may.